It happened like this. I was in the kitchen and irritated that Diane wasn’t putting things away the way I would. My thought was, “She should do it the way I do.” And I wasn’t liking her at that moment. … Continue reading
It is encouraging how the space of our relationship provides a mirror to show me when I am not connecting to Diane and others; when I retreat into myself or become isolated or controlling and short with people. A recent … Continue reading
Diane and I had recently had a great date and were happy with each other and our life. Appreciative and thankful. So why was I Grumpy and Irritated with little things that she did, using too many spoons, not hanging … Continue reading
June 9, 2014 Nevada City, CA Diane’s and my second anniversary today; she is in France with the WWII veterans and their families for the 70th reunion of D-day and I am at home, keeping the cats and chickens … Continue reading
This last weekend I had the good fortune to meet with a Frenchman named Sami Cohen. We had both been asking the same question, “How does this reality we live in work and how do I work it?” for … Continue reading
Since my last blog, I have participated in two fulfilling activities. I went to Boston and won the Head of the Charles, my third rowing goal for this, my seventieth year and I attended a reunion of the 6-Day … Continue reading
Relationship Course for Individuals and Couples The domain of transformation at the level of the individual involves several dynamics: “waking up” by turning on the Observer Self, shifting from a victim or at effect stance in your reality to an … Continue reading
I realize that part of doing these blogs is to chronicle what is happening in my life, whether I have seen the big insight that unlocks the pattern door or not. So here goes. After returning from Europe and my … Continue reading
Yesterday while I was walking on the way to the garden of our beautiful farm, I noticed I was annoyed and angry, and kind of depressed about life, and I could not find a reason for feeling this way as … Continue reading
I started noticing this as a pattern only recently. Back in February when we were in New Zealand, Diane was trying to get me to call someone to help with cleaning in preparation for the wedding celebration we were holding … Continue reading